No longer ually attracted to my husband?

Everybody has feelings ....right, wrong, good, bad, or indifferent. It's not so much as what are you doing wrong, as "Is it right what you are doing"? You may very well have made a mistake by getting married, especially because you're struggling to ascertain whether or not you are in love with him. With the marriage not one year old to lose its romantic moments without a logical explanation is sad and I'm sure very disappointing to your husband, as it is confusing to you. This relationship needs answers to survive. you need to find out what is causing those feelings you have. If it is your husband, what is it about him that irritates you.Once you can pinpoint something ,then the two of you need to talk. Not at home, get a corner in a quiet little cafe, have dinner, and may share a litre of wine afterwords trying to get things back to normal. If you give it a couple of months with some new attitudes and it still is a failure, then I think it may be time to separate. It would be really unfair of you to expect your husband to remain in a relationship without intimacy. I realize it upsets you to think he may get his life on track with another woman.The fortunate thing is you can do the same, without regret. I do not think you got to know each other well enough in a two month courtship. I'm hoping this turns out well . God Bless The Both Of You .